For me, it usually comes natural, especially with people I love. I get mad and I might blow things out of proportion because something pisses me off, but I forgive fast.
Sometimes though forgiveness doesn’t want to let go and wants to stay, longer, poison my soul.
I thought I forgave my first grown-up boydfriend.
Well, when I was calling him an asshole and re-hashing the whole story of us to my mom 15 minutes after we had seen him in a supermarket, it took me by surprise.
I didn’t realize I was still bitter towards him.
The whole thing was something from the movies.
Thank you 🙏 guys for reading.
You can find the whole story on Medium, “Forgiveness is rational” ♥️
Sorry for not posting for such a long time