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Here's our letters for today!
Lately, my friend and I have been arguing. We're not mean to each other or anything, but we were talking about sensitive topics. I think I'm just making it worse. What should I do?
Without knowing the specific topics, it is hard to say. But talk to your friend and tell them that you have noticed how upset it is making both of you.
See if you can come to a compromise of some sort or at least both of you recognize that you have different opinions and choose not to discuss them anymore.
Even the closest of friends can stay close with the knowledge that some things they just will never agree on. It does not mean they can't still be a good friend.
Should I stop being friends with this one girl? She never listens to what i say and cares nothing about me. But i guess I like cause she makes me look cool? lol classic teenager move.
She talks over me and doesn't care about my mental health at all but only talks about herself.
My advice would be to yes, stop hanging around that girl. I know she might make you look 'cool' but honestly? It isn't worth it. Surrounding yourself with people like that won't make you happy.
Friends are supposed to be there for you, not be narcissistic snobs who don't care about how you're feeling.
I suggest that you start hanging around people who have the same interests as you, or people who would/will actually take the time to get to know you.
As a teenager myself, I completely understand that you want to look cool, but staying friends with a girl like her won't make you feel any better about life.
Before I go on a rant, I'll leave you with this: Making a million friends isn't a miracle. A miracle is to make a friend who will stand by your side when millions are against you :)
That's all for now, and don't forget to send in your letters! Thank you to the advisor panel: @aspendao, @wafflecatz, @goldenflame, and @stitchastory!