Human is a sum of parts, both good and bad.
Common adjectives: nice, team player, outgoing...
Common adjectives: asshole, jerk, selfish...
It's all relative and it's all words
Have you ever met someone who was extremely popular but you could not get along? or Have you ever met someone who was notorious for being an asshole but two of you are like peas in a pod?
It doesn't matter
Just go out and meet people. Stepping on toes is to be expected. The folks who disagree will disagree, Just stay true to yourself, so others will be true to you.