Everyone is lost
You're not the only one without a direction in career, relationships and life in general (if you know what you want to do, share your success!)
It takes time to find ourselves
Self awareness is the first step to move away from obligations and really understand yourself
Look beyond your company
Many folks who have worked for a few years tend to fixate with their skills that are mostly relevant internal to that company. Talk to people outside
Ask yourself the hard questions
Are you happy with your existing role? Are you satisfied with what you are doing? Can you see yourself doing this for the following year?
If you are unable to find a job outside, start looking at your gaps. Fill them. Quickly
Keep moving forward
Don't stop. The world sure as hell doesn't
Mentor others and have a team that pushes you
Have a strong team that drives you to do better. Sometimes the team is not there yet. Create it.