you have a life time. you have tomorrow. time is fucking relative okay, and you’re not racing anyone here unless you have some weird bet running with someone.
in which case you sort of made that bed for yourself i am sorry.
my point is, try not to let your brain trick you into thinking you are losing at life because you aren’t at x arbitrary milestone.
life rarely comes down like a lightning bolt from on high and slaps you in the face. you are living now. you’re doing fine.