Why is that a thing though? As you grow and become wiser and more familiar with this thing called life, shouldn’t you be ready and confident since you are an adult ?
Unfortunately that may be the case for some, but others like myself still get that high school feeling with butterflies in your stomach when you see that one person.
From your friends to their friends, from things such as classes, work and family timing is a major part in every relationship and if both partners aren’t on the same level then things can go bad
It’s a hard obstacle to beat since there are other challenges which make this path even more complex.
This is when confidence and believing in yourself comes into play hard. Hoping that you don’t mess up or say the wrong thing so that one person you are interested in will also have interest in you as well.
Sometimes what stops myself and other people out there, from telling the person they like how they feel, is because we don’t want the friendship to seem awkward or weird to be around another.
This is the first time in my 21 years of living that I can honestly say I have found interest in someone and it worries me a lot.
What worries me though is, the fact I’ve never felt this way before, and it is a confusing matter of how to approach her.
Be yourself and be confident. Calm and collected is the way to handle situations like these. Have the idea in your mind that “okay I know she likes me too, just tell her what is the worst that can happen.
One thing I always remembered from my childhood self was “you will never know something /find out unless you try” so do I just flat out tell her? Or do I present hints instead?
The answer is you do whatever you feel will be right. The way you go at this challenge will be achieved because it is how you do it rather than trying someone else’s ways. This is what makes us all different and this is why you may never know how someone else feels unless YOU tell them and be YOURSELF.