Do you ever meet someone who just completely changes your lifestyle, your views, your beliefs. The type of person who comes into your life and shakes the very foundations you stand on. A person so amazing that you cannot believe they are supposed to be in your life. Well let me tell you what it means when this person enters your life, in my opinion anyways. This person is someone who saves you, who makes you question yourself to the extent of bettering yourself everyday to continue to be in the life of this person. It's easy to push yourself to new limits for this person because they automatically take up most of your thought prowess. Not a second goes by that they aren't on your mind, or a decision you make that is not influenced by this person. All you crave is the energy this person gives you, the willpower they instill in you, the positive energy they so easily boost into you. You cannot pull yourself away from this person no matter how badly you are afraid of the damage that could come from it. I did not understand it at first, how could I be so vulnerable, so easily undefended? Well when you meet this person, all of that becomes white noise in the background. You become willing to be vulnerable so this person can understand you on a deeper level, you do things that you would never do because you know it is what the other person really wants. Here I am talking about what you feel when you meet this person and not what this person is. This person is absolutely amazing to you in every possible way, and by no means do I mean this person is perfect. I simply mean that they make their imperfections look beautiful. Whether that be hiding behind the piles of pain they endured on their path to become who they are or the lack of trust they have for anything real. They've been hurt just like you and understanding that is part of the excitement of being with this person. This person will show you things that you never imagined were possible, the willpower, the determination, the strength they show. It's all these things that make you fall so deeply in love. This type of love is the heaviest and realest thing you could ever experience, you feel it deep into your toes. It changes every fiber of your being, and for what? Well let me tell you, you feel these changes and think about this person in every fiber of your being because it's the most real thing you've ever felt. All you want in your life is to be there for this person however you can be. It's extremely hard sometimes, but in no way is it not worth it. You'll walk through fire over and over for this person because that’s what they need whether they know it or not. You'll sacrifice yourself over and over, not only because they need it, but because it's all you want to do. No matter how much pain you're going through, you put aside those issues if it means being there for this person. I guess what I'm saying is, when this person enters your life, you know almost instantly and you can't defend yourself against it. No matter how strong you are, they overpower your strength and all you want to do is.. Be the person to them, that they are to you. To be the positive impact in their life, to always push them to be better. You want to lift them up in the way they lift you up. This to me is the essence of love, it's undeniable and absolutely useless to try and ignore. It shows in your voice when talking to them, in your thoughts throughout your daily life. Most of all, in your heart. When you look at them and it feels like your heart is dropping through your body from being so heavy. It's the type of love that you never want to let go of, because there truly is never another one like it. So when you find this person, do everything in your power to be there for them, to raise them up to places they didn't know they could go. That is the best thing you can do for this person, always support them, never take them for granted, always and I mean always be honest with them. Deceit is the knife in the heart when it comes to love and will ultimately destroy the trust that is absolutely necessary to continue being there for this person. I couldn't believe it either when it happened, it was absolutely terrifying to realize how vulnerable one could be. Yet, I continue going forward because just being able to help this person be their greatest self is the most amazing feeling in the world and I'd walk across an entire floor of lava if it meant seeing that smile everyday.