Love means many things, none are ownership
You may love a cat but, you will never own it. You may own a chair, but you cannot love it. You may love another but, you don't own them. You may own many things. People aren't things
You do not beat or kill your cat if someone else pets it
Why the violence if your loved one is touched by someone else. Why are you feeling loss? Enjoy the time together. Don't be jealous of anything in the times you are apart.
If your committed relationship falters, TALK!
If you feel betrayed, say it, tell the loved one. Discuss, compromise, and problem solve your relationship. What do you gain by hitting, screaming, or shooting the other person?
Violence, verbal or physical, has no place in love.
Man has evolved with a cerebrum for rational thought and action control. Don't forfeit this advantage by irrational thought and action. Remember to respect your loved one.
Millions of lives are destroyed each year by ownership.
The illusory thinking that you own another's body parts is not rational. Your love interest is free to use their parts as they wish. You are free to compromise or leave.
Love is never about destruction
Love is about caring for another person more than you care for yourself. Possessiveness and jealousy are caring more about yourself than your loved one.
Let love lift you up, carry you away, keep you safe.
Love is all about warmth. It is the zzzingg of life. Relish it.