You know my moms rather manly and my dads pretty feminine. My dad still sees himself as a man but my mom just sees herself as…herself.
However she doesn’t like the whole genderfluid, non-binary, agender stuff even after I explained it to her so she still tells everyone that she’s a woman.
Which is fine I just want her to be comfortable.
But I’m not always comfortable calling myself a girl. I’m also not comfortable calling myself a boy.
I’ve been thinking about this a lot. I’m pretty sure I’m either genderfluid (because I sometimes feel really feminine) or non-binary (because I mostly just feel like me).
But that’s not my problem. My problem is that I prefer the pronoun ‘they’. Don’t seem like a much of a problem, right? Wrong. I’m Austrian. I talk to my family and friends in German.
There’s no 'they’ in German. Well..there is but it doesn’t work for this. They is 'sie’ in German. She is also 'sie’.
The only thing that changes is the grammar 'cause you start talking about more people.
Anyway it pisses me off. I want to be comfortable but I can’t. If y'all got any tips, please do tell me.