Women Abusing Men - Note 1
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A common scenario I encounter and despise:1. Woman and I make a commitment (time/understanding in friendship, a specific or general time for a date, etc.)2. Woman breaks commitment because of emotional reaction or general screw up (dog dies, family dinner, forgets, moves other priorities forward in line)3.
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Women Abusing Men - Note 1

by thequietpoly-blog

A common scenario I encounter and despise:1. Woman and I make a commitment (time/understanding in friendship, a specific or general time for a date, etc.)2.

Woman breaks commitment because of emotional reaction or general screw up (dog dies, family dinner, forgets, moves other priorities forward in line)3.

I become upset (typically after repeat offenses)4. Woman shifts blame. (Her forgetting becomes > I am responsible, just busy.  Her dog dies = I have feelings; you’re insensitive.

Family dinner/other social priorities push our commitment back = I JUST met you.)5. Men and women “victim shame”. (“You should know not to come on so strong.” - “People are busy; be patient.

” - “You’re insecure.”, etc.)(6. Isolation, feelings of anger, sadness, anxiety, self-doubt, defiance, apathy, etc.

increase)I think it’s easier if people get their shit together and keep their commitments, but that’s just me. The bottom line is: you made a commitment; you didn’t keep it. It’s your responsibility.

Apologize, reschedule, and don’t keep doing it…(And a “commitment” doesn’t have to be an official, written contract or specific time and date agreed upon - but that’s a topic for another post.)

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