for the love of all that is good, never ever ever EVER be with someone who doesn’t like who you are fundamentally as a person.
people will constantly try and force you in a role that fills their needs. you are not just a gf/bf/significant other/wife/husband/partner.
YOU are a living, breathing human with needs, and you deserve to have those needs met. love authentically, see them for who they are before you archetype them, and you can only grow.