So I'm not sure if this is the right subreddit or if let's not meet was better, but this happened to me when I was 20, I'm 31 now.
So in my early 20's I was single and bored so I used to just chat with guys on different dating sites, blackplanet, meetup, and just random sites I could find on my android play store.
Most of the guys talked about sex (no surprise) but I talked to some who were actually cool. One ended up being one of my best friends for the past 9 years now.
I have several crazy stories from people I've talked to on these apps, but I'll just talk about one for now.
This one particular guy, Manny, seemed cool too. We would chat on the app Wertago. We eventually exchanged numbers after a few months and talked a lot.
Then we started hanging out, we'd go to movies out to eat, etc. I decided I trusted him enough to go over his house.
So I'm over there we start talking and of course one thing leads to another and we're making out like crazy. He then tries to take me top off but I stop him and tell him we gotta stop.
He starts begging me to go further. He starts saying things like "I really like you, I just want to be with you, you don't know what you mean to me.
" Blah blah blah all that stuff guys say to try get a girl to sleep with them.
I hate when people try to pressure me to do anything and I didn't know how to be assertive back then, so me being a timid, shy 20 year old, I gave in.
He starts to go in and I stop him again and pull out a condom, he seemed disappointed I made him wear one. The sex was ok, I wasn't really into it because I hated he talked me into it.
So anyway, we finish and I leave. I don't want to talk to him again.
So about 2 or 3 weeks go by and he texts me finally asking how I am. I say I'm fine. He asks have I been to the doctor lately.
I start freaking out in my mind thinking maybe he had an std and that' s why he asked about the doctor. I say "no why?" This nut says, "because of the baby.
" I say "what baby?" He then says, "I thought you would be pregnant by now." I'm so confused at this point. I ask him why again.
He has the nerve to tell me he put a hole on the condom so he could get me pregnant. I flip out and start text yelling "Why would you do that? What's wrong with you?" I ask.
He said he really liked me and thought I would date him if he got me pregnant.
Now, you may ask how could I not know he poked a hole in the condom. I saw him put it on, but had my back turned to him at one point during the whole thing. That's probably when he did it.
Needless to say I freaked out on him. I deleted and blocked him on every single thing I had him on, Facebook, Twitter, his calls, texts, everything.
I went to the doctors and made sure I got a pregnancy and std test. Thank God everything was ok.