For some background, at the time of this encounter I was eighteen and had just gotten out of a bad relationship. Many of my roommates were pressuring me to get a dating app and "get back out there".
So, being a weakling, I obliged. Within about two days, I had been chatting with a few guys and one asked me to go for coffee. I was a bit nervous because I had only just met him.
But from talking with him over text and chat apps, he seemed perfect. He and I had many things in common and I figured that it would be ok if I went out to meet him.
Being safe, I brought along a friend and her boyfriend. The date went really well and I even invited him over for a coffee after the shop had closed.
But when we got to my place, he became really handsy. Meaning a lot of touching of my legs and arms. I told him to stop, but he continued.
I began getting really scared and nervous and said I was getting tired and needed to go to bed. His expression went from happy to angry and almost... hungry.
He told me he wanted to spend the night which made me crap my pants. I said no and that he needed to go home. He proceeded to grab my leg- hard.
His nails were digging into my skin and i told him to GET THE F OUT. He leaned over and kissed me!! Straight on the mouth!!!! I finally got him to leave and locked the door behind him.
I notified all of my roommates that he was bad news. That night I got a text from my mother saying call me.
Turns out, this dude had texted my mother something along the lines of "I'll take good care of her... she is so pretty and I am in love with her.
She made me feel like my life had purpose again... I'll never let her go". I could have puked. How did he get my mother's number???
We both blocked the number and I reported him on the POF site. Before I blocked him, I told him that if he ever contacted me again I would call the police.
This isn't the scariest or the creepiest story, but it was terrifying to me. So to the guy from POF, let's not meet again.