Dream guy
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ameagamiCommunity member
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Dream guy

by ameagami

My dream guy Even in my teens I didn't dream of blond and blue eyed Tall, dark and handsome is more my style ;-)

After I saw life's and people's ugly face My dream guy became The one with whom I feel safe Someone I can open my heart to without fear In front of him I can be myself, I can breath

Now, I'm single and 29 I couldn't find my dream guy

Did I miss my chance Is love not in my cards I know my chances in finding him are fading away And with luck like mine I might not find love anywhere But hey I won't give up on my dream guy

Stories We Think You'll Love
ameagamiBronze CommaCommunity member
a year ago
From the beginning

ameagamiBronze CommaCommunity member
7 months ago
Detoxing failed

ameagamiBronze CommaCommunity member
9 months ago
Since you were gone



a year agoReply
@bernardtwindwil thank you so much for being so sweet and kind , you really are a great guy

bernardtwindwilGold CommaGranddad & story teller, tomthepo8.com
a year agoReply
@ameagami Yes it is difficult when there have been no archetypes of men like you dream of. But they exist. If you keep perfect honesty with yourself, you will know within a month if you have a keeper. Meanwhile keep on writing about your fears, hopes, and dreams.

a year agoReply
@bernardtwindwil awww , that's so sweet, I wish you all the happiness and love in the world .... to be honest I never saw an example of "a good man" growing up , they weren't that bad but they weren't that good either , for example I saw a guy divorcing his wife cause she got diagnosed with cancer, so I always said there are no good men in the world ... but 9 months ago my beloved mother passed away , I lost the only person that loved me , a year ago I lost my job and I had no luck finding another one , and since my mom is not here all the ugly faces has been revealed , ... now I feel so alone and so confused , I don't want to be alone but I'm terrified of ending up with someone who makes me wish I was alone .... wow , how messed up did I sound , lol

bernardtwindwilGold CommaGranddad & story teller, tomthepo8.com
a year agoReply
Three true stories. One, I was 30 years old, divorced, and had custody of my daughter making me a single Dad. I met a 22 year old girl at the college we attending. We married three weeks later. That was 41 years ago and we are still married. She told me the main difference with me and the other guys is that I made her feel safe. Two, At a party several years later with Army Nurses in there late 20s and early 30s who were unmarried asked the question, "Where are all the good guys who actually aren't afraid of a marriage commitment?" I said, "They are all married and have been happily married for several years." Take an adult education class in literature or fine arts and find a guy with like interest and pursue him with vigor.