Indecisive
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amandadantasChaotic Good
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A story about coming to terms with my sexuality and and people around me

Indecisive

by amandadantas

Unlike most people, i was lucky enough to easily come to terms with how I was and what I was going to face

I can't quite tell you when I realised I liked girls and boys, I think I always did but suffocated the feelings I had for girls, until I just couldn't do it anymore.. Didn't want to do it anymore

The situation in which i had to tell my mom was awful and involved a pervert uncle but that' a story for another time. My mom was...shocked. Kinda. I guess "Bi" was written on my forehead.

After some time of building comfort around the subject of my sexuality, I guess we're fine about it. Although I was lucky on almost all of my story, there is one thing i can definetly say.

Before "coming out" to anyone, especially your family, you have to accept yourself and who you are because people around you will say that you're just in doubt or have to "pick a side"

Be authentic and know one thing: you don't have to respect someone who doesn't respect you, and that counts for family too. Don't be afraid to push toxic people away

Respect and love yourself first.

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ivoryannaliseCommabassadorWriter, Reader, YouTuber, and Artist
a month agoReply
This was marvelous! It has such a good message about knowing who who are and not letting others take that away! Amazing job! 😆

amandadantasChaotic Good
4 months agoReply
@onlyadreamer THANK U SO MUCH, it sounds terribly cliché but I swear its going to be okay just make sure that you're comfortable before you co me out to anyone. Good luck, sweetheart :)

onlyadreamerGrace - She/her, INFP, dreaming
5 months agoReply
thank you for this. i've been identifying as bi for a little while now, and i'm trying to figure out how to come out. i'm afraid people will tell me to choose a side like you said. this is something I know a lot of people struggle with, so THANK U for speaking out!

amandadantasChaotic Good
5 months agoReply
@mitchel It's so good ti know I migjt be helping someone out there, thank you so much for your support!!!

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5 months agoReply
@bernardtwindwil thank you so much, this just made my day!!!I'm relieved to know i apparently didnt fuck up the grammar cause english isnt my first language

bernardtwindwilGold CommaGranddad & story teller, tomthepo8.com
5 months agoReply
This was a wonderful post. Never mind that the syntax and grammar were perfect. The story was redolent with wisdom and self actualization. I loved it. Great post!!!!!!

mitchelBronze Comma"Fight it,take the pain,ignite it"
5 months agoReply
You're raising your voice for so much people out there! This theme is so important and current nowadays. Your story is on point👌🏻